“You Don’t Know Who You Are Until You’re Married”

Check out footnotes from Jay-Z’s 4:44 album about black men and relationships.

Women often have conversations about men who lack communication, perspective, honesty, and empathy. I’ve dated men who are emotionally bankrupt and many accredited this to never seeing emotion, communication, and a husband/father figure in their home.

Click the link below for the footnotes of Jay-Z’s 4:44 album and tell me what you think:


Published by

Ashley V.

One day I woke up, married...two daughters...and third on the way, and I decided to write! I am a Florida A&M University graduate; currently seeking my Master's degree in Reading and Literacy. I am a high school Reading teacher. I am underpaid, over-loved, overwhelmed, overjoyed, and often in-over-my-head!

6 thoughts on ““You Don’t Know Who You Are Until You’re Married”

  1. great publish, very informative. I wonder why the other specialists of this sector don’t notice this. You must continue your writing. I’m confident, you have a huge readers’ base already!

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Thank you, I have recently been looking for information about this topic for a long time and yours is the best I have discovered so far. But, what in regards to the bottom line? Are you certain in regards to the source?

    Liked by 1 person

  3. You actually make it seem really easy along with your presentation however I to find this matter to be actually one thing which I feel I might never understand. It sort of feels too complex and extremely broad for me. I am having a look forward in your subsequent post, I will attempt to get the cling of it!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. I don’t think it is easy at all but acknowledging that you aren’t emotionally in touch or lack communication is the first step. Because it is so complex, some men would rather only brush the surface but in a marriage, you either face yourself and the marriage head on or you refuse and this is were you will lose your partner. As a women I am constantly searching myself and evolving. A wife does not want a man who she constantly has to ask “how do you feel/think about…” women want to be intrigued and honest communication is a must.


  4. I am not sure the place you are getting your information, but great topic. I must spend some time studying more or understanding more. Thanks for magnificent information I was in search of this information for my mission.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.